Most Helpful Guy
There's one answer to this question and it sucks. But it's the only thing that works.
You're going to think about him a lot, cry, get angry and be too depressed to do anything. But it works because that's the only solution. Try to keep yourself busy, join a gym and go out with your friends. Anything to keep your mind off him as much as possible. You'll have good days and bad days, but u just gotta keep on truckin. Eventually he'll be a distant memory. But for now, take it one day at a time and be as strong as possible. Good luck.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who Still Marks an X in your soft spot here, dear, it's a fresh Break up, you haven't even begun your beguine of licking your war wounds and it's not to say that... he is Missing the kissing as you say you are 'Sick to my stomach and I'm just torturing myself.'
You both have history, have shared a lot in these '3 years,' so with this being said, I am sure he is Missing what you both had and the things that really meant something to him.
However, I say it doesn't mean it has to be "Good-bye," because with time, comes motive in mind, and any time, it's the guy who comes back with his tail between his legs and wants you back in his life, but only with a Friends with benefits factor in his own mind.
If this time would come, it's your choice, your call. It's his way of saying that he doesn't feel comfy with anyone else but yet, with no strings attached, he can have his cake with you and eat it to and have it his way As he... moves on.
For now, focus on you and let time heal, as they say. And if he does end up getting in touch with you, which I believe he will, give it time... just be careful because with contact, it's hard to 'Move on" from that day forth.
Good luck. xx
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