We were together for 3 years and just broke up a couple days ago or so. I just cannot stop thinking about what he might be doing, or even worse, who he might be doing. The thought just makes me sick to my stomach and I'm just torturing myself. I know I cannot control him, but when I have these thoughts it makes me want to catch him before he moves on. What thoughts can I have to replace these?
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who Still Marks an X in your soft spot here, dear, it's a fresh Break up, you haven't even begun your beguine of licking your war wounds and it's not to say that... he is Missing the kissing as you say you are 'Sick to my stomach and I'm just torturing myself.'
You both have history, have shared a lot in these '3 years,' so with this being said, I am sure he is Missing what you both had and the things that really meant something to him.
However, I say it doesn't mean it has to be "Good-bye," because with time, comes motive in mind, and any time, it's the guy who comes back with his tail between his legs and wants you back in his life, but only with a Friends with benefits factor in his own mind.
If this time would come, it's your choice, your call. It's his way of saying that he doesn't feel comfy with anyone else but yet, with no strings attached, he can have his cake with you and eat it to and have it his way As he... moves on.
For now, focus on you and let time heal, as they say. And if he does end up getting in touch with you, which I believe he will, give it time... just be careful because with contact, it's hard to 'Move on" from that day forth.
Good luck. xx
Good luck. xx0