Now we dated for about 4 months and broke up 3 weeks ago and while I'm over the relationship I still have feelings for him. He broke it off because I kept wanting to break up because I felt I needed him to put in a little more effort and he said he probably wouldn't be able to make me happy. So we decided to be friends because there'd be less expectations but I've come to the realization that this is killing me. One minute I'm happy and not missing him then he messages me saying he misses me and I'm back to square one again. Everytime we hang out it's really nice and he's affectionate and sweet and I begin to fall for him again. Then after he leaves and our moment is over it's like I don't exist until he misses me again. Thing is I know what to do, I need to respect the actual healing time but it's so hard and at the same time he's actually a really good guy at heart and I don't want to lose him or whatever is keeping us from completely letting each other go.
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better tell em... ;)0