Most Helpful Girl
It's hard, Steve, when someone you love and you are in this relationship with, has emotional problems. They can't focus on you nor themselves and it throws a big monkey wrench into things where if they don't get help, they go astray and can't handle anything or anyone.
She is in the middle of this crisis and with her getting the help she has admitted she needs, it's bringing you down and you are having problems Handling this. It takes a special person to be in this sort of relationship because with someone like this, who is up and down like a yo yo, it surely takes a huge toll on the loved one.
Move on with your own life and focus on you for now. She is in this for the long haul and may never come back to you or be able to be in a Real Relationship and yes, I agree with you... It's something bigger than the relationship and you may not feel any better for a long time.
Good luck. xx