Here's the background, dated for a year and everything was great and then she totally changed. Started to question the relationship more , wasn't upfront with her emotions and then dumped me and gave no reason why. Come to find out she's not happy with herself and she's got a lot of other stresses in her life that she can't control. She is anxious and nervous for the future with me and can't figure out if I will be the one for her. She is seeing someone for all of this but I just don't know how long I can take this for. I love her but knowing it had nothing to do with me and it's something bigger than the relationship doesn't make me feel any better. I need some advice. Thanks. Steve
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It's hard, Steve, when someone you love and you are in this relationship with, has emotional problems. They can't focus on you nor themselves and it throws a big monkey wrench into things where if they don't get help, they go astray and can't handle anything or anyone.
She is in the middle of this crisis and with her getting the help she has admitted she needs, it's bringing you down and you are having problems Handling this. It takes a special person to be in this sort of relationship because with someone like this, who is up and down like a yo yo, it surely takes a huge toll on the loved one.
Move on with your own life and focus on you for now. She is in this for the long haul and may never come back to you or be able to be in a Real Relationship and yes, I agree with you... It's something bigger than the relationship and you may not feel any better for a long time.
Good luck. xx0