He said he has been single a year an basically only had one girlfriend. So he seems more inexperienced in dating then me like not knowing how to do proper going out dates. An wanting to stay in first until he's comfortable but staying in doesn't mean jumping straight to sex then dates after. After first date it was dark 10pm at night an he drops me around corner from my home. He keeps relationships a secret till their serious also. I text him saying we aren't working before he insulted me. But glad I did now as he said But why are u this rubbish and scared in bed, can u be better or not? I am a Virgin an he acts like this with me after two dates. Like no wonder I am not willing to give it up he seems so selfish
He even said he would end it in anger last time I saw him cus of not giving sex then he said sorry etc.
Most Helpful Guy
Seems to me like you did the right thing. A lady like you deserves a lot more respect than what this guy showed you. Actually, I don't think he showed you any!!
You are so right. A lady needs to be courted and romanced. She needs time to let her trust in the guy grow. Trust has to be earned, it isn't given automatically in the first date.
Any decent guy will go at your pace, just as far as you feel happy and safe. Never be pressured into doing something like losing your virginity too early. It is something you could regret if that happens.
Take good care, stay safe!!
Most Helpful Girl
You are so sensible to dump him. He sounds like a loonietune darling. Wait for someone who you feel comfortable with :)