I recently found emails between my husband and some woman. It was all friendly conversation nothing sexual but it's been over many months these emails have been exchanged. The last one however she told my husband she couldn't email him anymore but she would see him around. I started asking close friends and found out that he had an affair with her (married too!) a few years back. I confronted him and he admitted they'd slept together once but stayed friends only. He admits she stopped the communication and he's not sure why but that they no longer have contact. he also said there was only one time they ran into each other and they said hi and that was all. My question is should I believe it's really done and over? I tend to think that nothing is really ever over unless it's CLEAR it's over. This seems like it's on pause but he even showed me they've blocked each other on social media. I've heard stories where years go by and the flame doesn't die it just takes opportunity. I'm wondering if I should be concerned.
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i think if you can take it and forgive it then do it , it may be hard for you , but at least try , i have been there , and i knew he is talking to someone else , i just couldnt make it , couldnt trust him or touch him after that , but still we were not married , and had no children , so yes , try harder to save it if you can :s, an he really should try to make it up for you and make you trust him again , if he did , then give him a chance, ifyou couldnt then dont go too hard on yourself trying to live with someone you dont feel safe inside with him , both choices are difficult :s , men are so selfish i hate the way they just do what they want putting all the consequences on the woman :s. please let me know what will you do?0