yesterday, I got an interesting text from my ex... "it seems like you are having an easy time getting over me..."
we broke up 4 weeks ago after dating for a year and a half (we were on a break during June and July) and this has been the longest relationship and most caring relationship for both of us.
I'm not sure what her deal is or why she wrote me that text, but all I responded was saying "it's not as easy as you think."
to be honest I'm not that upset we broke up -- things just weren't working out -- and I'm totally over her.
her, on the other hand just seems to not be able to get over me...i kind of feel bad. while this is the first text that pretty much said it, she has texted/called me a few times since we've broken up.
we aren't together and I'm not sure why she keeps on doing this. I feel bad for her considering, but I'm not sure how to respond to her when she texts/calls me. I felt so bad.
i think this breakup is harder for her (then the break in the summer) is because in the summer she dated some dude which she admitted was a rebound and never gave herself a chance to get over me. now that she is completely single she is hasn't given herself a chance to get over me.
what do I do when she contacts me?
is it obviously she still has feelings for me?
how should I deal with this situation?
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She still loves you, that's the only thing to explain it. I have been in her shoes before and let me tell you this, you have to be COMPLETELY honest with her, to help her get over you. When she texts/calls you, you must tell that you love her as a friend ONLY and you must let her know that you are taking the time to get over this relationship and want her to heal to. DO NOT hook up with her, give her false hopes of things happening between you 2, and definatley do not ignore her or stop talking to her. She needs you as a friend most importantly in her life and if you leave her she will feel as if she has failed so don't, be a good friend to her, help her heal. Another important thing is: DON'T DATE ANYONE ELSE IN THE MEANTIME. This will only break her heart, let her grieve, give her time, maybe a year or so and let her find another guy to love before you get another girlfriend. Please, just be nice to her she is hurting and heartbroken, understand that she needs time and just be her friend. Hope this answer helps, you and her.0