My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months we are both college students and we've only been on one date that was on Valentines Day, we went to IHOP he didn't even wanna pay he really wanted to leave without paying but I made him pay. He never wants to go out with me, he just wants to play basketball and hang out with his friends. I always have to initiate sex. I have to literally beg him to do things with me. I've bought him a lot of things, he's only bought me fast food. He doesn't like spending his money on me. But he likes spending it on weed. He makes me feel like I'm not his girlfriend or he doesn't care. He always ignores me when I ask him questions. He just acts like he doesn't care at all. Then when I actually do leave him, he begs for me back and stuff. Then when we get back together he'll be nice for a couple days then he'll go back to his old ways. I've talked to him about it, but it seems like he doesn't wanna ever listen.
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Most Helpful Guy
He clearly has no interest in your relationship and he is a scum bag for trying to leave a restaurant without paying. You would be much better off without him1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You have Answered your own Question about "Should I break up with him," Lexi_818. and with this being said, it sounds like he is still wet behind the ears in years as well, I can tell, and may not change for a very long time... or at all.
You certainly deserve better so don't continue to be his Enabler, where he sees, that everytime you try and dump him, he makes you feel guilty and knows you will pick up with him again and put up with him. At that given moment, you are his challenge, and when he has you snugly back in his back pocket once more, he closes the door.
He's a loser to boot and with Valentine's Day, no sweetheart, just a Tart who you should have given your walking papers to after the... IHOP.
Good luck. xx0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE