So whenever me and my partner fight I'll send him a paragraph about what was wrong and what could've been done to avoid the fight but all he says "I'm sorry, I understand or a sad face" but when he does something to a girl he sends he paragraphs about how "he's so sorry and how it's unfair to hurt them" and all that crap. He's more sympathetic towards other girls than me...
i really don't know what to do. I don't want to feel like I'm not cared About.
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I don't think a lot of apology's are sincere, people just say it so the other person feels better, pretty sure that's way more common in men, just to get the woman to shut up and to make us feel better lol. To me it's more about how someone treats me outside of an apology, if they continue to hurt you in the same ways then I wouldn't waste my time in the situation anymore.
If he apologizes differently to other people then he does to you then he probably doesn't agree with what he's apologizing for when it comes to you or he doesn't care enough about your feelings.1