He was older about to start his career. He has hurt you a lot of times. He was always dominant one and did whatever worked best for him. Parents hated him along with friends saying he's arrogant and cocky and just using you and your too stupid to see it. You start sneaking around like twice a month waiting till the day u move out together afterm he gets into his career in 8 months.
You don't see him showing affection still.. you can't communicate these feelings.. you just let it be. In return you attempt to get his attention different ways.. harmless jealousy.. when he doesn't reach you start acting indifferent and frusterating. You start acting lile you dont care stop opening up. Theb he notices the distance.. and starts acting distant with you. He starts accusing you of cheating.. you accuse him of messing around too. He would make efforts he and there to message you here and there but it seemed to always be about him or just mindless or emotionless flirting. You lash out here and there.. hoping he will get the hint but theb you act like you don't care anymore and nudge him off. He didn't talk about serious plans or keep you updated on the move or plans. He was out with the guys drinking seemingly having a good time.
You break up on your brithday 2 weeks before the move. He acts sad and says no contact and I guess this yur decision after he tried to convince you to stay. he even asked if there is someone else. You said fuck you with no hesitation. Cried the next day asking for him back saying I want you but want my mom too..
He rejected you for your own good yet asked for you back. Then proceeded to ask for you back. He has a setback in his career found out he's dealing with a lot with health in the family and stress. You still go no contact and wish him the best saying there's too much damage done. You thought he had already had sex a week after the breakup with someone else due to social media.
I guess what I'm asking is did she really just lose interest because I wasn't good enough or she was just torn and made the right decision. There was a point where she even sounded annoyed wheb I was talking to her but again it was avout me and mindless emotionabless flirting. I didn't show her attention or affection the way I wanted because I didn't feel comfortable enough with her games and all.
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you were was acting like a prize prick. you hardly showed her enough affection.
obviously too focussed on his career, partner was just after thought.
she did love you but, you kept pushing her away. thats why she left0