I cheated on my Girlfriend last month with some girl. It happened a few diff times. I've never cheated before. Now I feel awful,I did when it was happening to but everyday it gets worse. I love my girlfriend a lot and I want to tell her but if I do she will dump me. She already has a past with guys that cheated on her and if she knows I did it'll crush her and no doubt be the end of us. I wanna be with her but I don't know if can keep this from her forever. I don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her but I can't stand the guilt.
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Either you keep it to yourself and deal with the guilt.. or you tell her the truth.. imagine if it was her doing this to u? Hiding it, or would cover up & lie about it. You make mistakes in life & you learn from it!
I have more respect for a man telling me the truth that he made a mistake & saying that he is sorry.
Than a man who hides it or would lie about it.
Im not saying ur a Jerk or a constant cheater or anything like that.. You just messed up big time! And I agree too there is no good excuse for cheating. She deserves to know the truth, seriously! The guilt & emotions will change you in a way.. & It will affect the relationship. Maybe you will act different, you will not notice yourself but she will. And also the truth comes out sooner or later. If you don't tell her now & work from there.. try to make the relationship work then it will bite you in da ass later. I have been in a situation like this before but I guess every situation is a little different.
If not telling her... Then my suggestion is that you don't mention it to anyone & keep it to yourself! Or you go talk to some pro about it like a psycologist.
Im 99.9% sure about that the right thing to do is telling her the truth...
Wish you all the best =]5