she is posting things about me on MySpace, do I have a right to be upset. I know you say well I am posting here but its anonymous and I don't use her name. on her MySpace she pin points me out and makes me look like a bad person
she drops her daughter off with us monday and we take her back Friday we take care of her all week and still pay his ex full child support. she is saying me and my boyfriend are horrible people and don't do and ething ever when really we do more then she ever thought about.
do I have the right to ask her about why she is posting things about me and tell her not to or should I just let her go on and make me look bad?
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Frankly, people gossip all the time. She's just doing it in a venue that isn't inaccessible to you. Do you have the "right" to be upset, or the "right" to ask her about why she is talking about you? Nope. That isn't a right. But you can do it anyway. If you have a problem with what she's saying, either ignore her or confront her -- but don't do it on MySpace.
Remember that she is the mother, you're just another woman taking care of her child.. spending time with her, time that the mother no doubt wishes was hers. You're invading her territory -- or at least that is how she sees it. I'm not at all surprised that she's hostile towards you. Responding with equal hostility is not the answer.
I would suggest talking to her in a *private* setting, making clear that you don't have any intention of replacing her as a mother (if indeed you don't). Try improving your relations with her, ask if she has any particular concerns when the kid is at your house, etc. At some point the situation may change; the child may want more time with one parent, one of the parents may seek out more time, or even sole custody. The best thing possible is to fix the rift now, before it becomes a bigger problem in the future.1