Okay, so I have a boyfriend whom doesn't do anything. No hand holding, sucks at hugs, and hasn't even made out with anyone, but despite of all this, I still love him. That's why I've been holding on for so long.
Secretly, behind his back, I've made out with other guys and guys have asked me to be their "f*** buddy" and I have accepted, but I haven't done anything sexual with them yet, so would it still count as cheating on my boyfriend?
I've asked some other friends, and the answers all come out differently. Some of them say that it won't count as cheating because my boyfriend doesn't help me with my sexual needs and the "real" meaning of cheating is when I have another relationship with another guy. So I need your help. What do you think ?
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- When you do anything with anyone else, that you normally would perform for your boyfriend.
Examples: Hugs, Kisses, Relationship talks, Sexual Desires + fullfillment, etc.
I recommend you clarify with your boyfriend because maybe he would rather move on than be hurt like that. Then you could make a better decision, if or if not that it's okay with him.
In my own anecdote- I would find your conversations with these other men as cheating because of the reference to becoming "f*** buddies" - this would be considered "emotional cheating". On the contrary, by making out with other men- that too would be considered cheating.
If you aren't being fulfilled, talk to your man - maybe he believes he is being rude by smothering you with love or passion; when on the other hand - it's what you're wanting more of.