i used to date a girl that I loved so much but then she dumped me and she said she never loved me. It hurt me to death pretty much. So now I am dating this new girl and I she says she loves me but I don't think I love her that much. I like her but not very much. But I feel like I want to act exactly like my ex was acting towards me. It makes me feel better about losing my ex. Not sure why. I even say the same kinda things to this new girl like my ex used to say to me. But the only difference is that I don't think I want to leave this girl. I mean it doesn't hurt anyone, she loves me and wants to be with me and I don't want to be alone again. It's just that I am not as happy as I was with my ex. But if I leave this girl, I am gonna hurt her a lot and I don't wanna do to her what ex did to me. Like I said I don't mind being with her. But I am wondering if this is gonna work in the long term.
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if you don't see yourself with her in the longterm cos you don't love her and never will, then you should break up with her. do you think its really better to stay with her just so your not lonely, when she loves you and its a complete waste of her heart and time? but if you think there's a possibility you might fall for her at some point...1