Why can't I get over my ex?
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I spent ten minutes trying to think of what to tell u. Its true that we find consolation in knowing that those that hurt us will end up worse off. But sometimes they end up better and happy. Does that mean that our lives are over? Just cause someone decided to hurt u or reject u and then move on? I would hope not because that's a petty reason to go down.
I can imagine the thoughts that are going through your head. My ex is a loser but even the thought of him with someone else makes me very upset and yet he has nothing I need.
My point is we live to love, hurt and learn. We are a part of these people's puzzles and at times we are not. Cause sometimes we mean nothing to them. But that's them. Take back your power. You can't crumble cause of his decisions and his journey.
Take this time to build itself up. Even if it means going to school and taking a new career path. Do your best to build a happy and good life for yourself instead of being depressed over his. Cause while you are over here stressed he's continuing to build am even better life which will make you more bitter and contaminate YOUR life.
All the best to you. I do understand. But life has to carry on, and carry on in the best way possible. God bless
You need closure. You need to talk to him but you can't because he'll ignore you. I suggest you write a letter with all your thoughts and then just burn it. See if that helps you.
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