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I think you should sit down and write a list of reasons as to why you're ending your marriage. Are these problems fixable? Or is it, just that you don't feel it anymore? I think if your problems are fixable you should at least try and bring them up to him and things might not change right away but you just got to give them time.
But if you really do want a divorce, then that's fine, tell him. There really isn't an easy way and he is going to hurt for what might feel like forever unless, you know, he's unhappy too.