I'm supposed to meet with my ex-girlfriend over coffee to talk about things. She wants to be friends again as we haven't really talked since she broke up with me two months ago. I've thought about it for a while and was going to be fine with it, but my motives for being friends just isn't right. I want to be friends to try and get back with her eventually, and to be friends with benefits . Which might ultimately hurt me. I don't think being friends with someone I still have romantic feelings for will be best. She told me before that she wants nothing more than friends and I don't think I could handle seeing her with another guy. My parents don't even want me to meet with her because they think seeing her will set me back further. They want me to just tell her over the phone, so I don't have to see her. I want to though to show that I am strong enough and trying to move on. I'm just worried she'll beg me to be friends and that she'll try to manipulate me with good times we had together. I need to make sure what I say is set in stone! Any other suggestions?
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basically wot do u wanna do? apart from wot yer parents say!1