My boyfriend went to hang it some of his friends last week and while there, a girl sent me a picture showing me my boyfriend on the couch with a girl having her hand up his shirt. I called him to ask about the picture and he totally freaked out. To make a long story short. He ended up in a physical fight with both of the girl that sent me the picture. I do not condone violence and I was very furious with him. I went out to see him, we argued and we got in a fight too. I'll honestly say that I started hitting him and didn't stop till he hit me back. So after asking around and talking to the girl who had her hand up his shirt. She explained that she has nothing to do with him and that they have been friends for a very long time. And that she was cold (what a phony excuse). By this time we have already fought and I broke up with him. He did explain to me that he didn't want to be rude but he sat there for a minute waiting for her to remove her hand but when she didn't he got up for a smoke. He did apoligize for not pushing her off.
The next day when i cooled down I found out that he went to the club after the fight, got drunk and kissed a random girl because I broke it off with him.
The other girl that sent the picture has been writing me to tell me that she never liked him and that he's gonna get what he deserves. The girl that was sitting with him is also telling double stories. She first said that he was coming on to her and later when he called to ask what that was about, she switched up the story to say that she never said so.
I know that the situation got blown out of proportion. But do you think they are trying to break us up? The girl that was sitting with him started telling me and him different stories and the other girl just hates him. I don't want to brak up with him even though we have gone through a lot of crap toghether. And I believe I overreacted by hitting him and breaking up with him without looking clearly at the situation.
Most Helpful Guy
that is fucked up on multiple levels. I wouldn't get back together with you for 3 reasons. 1) You acted like a child and didn't talk to him. 2) you hit him. 3) like a child you go out and kiss someone else. what is that supposed to do exactly? how does that "get back" at anyone?
Your an adult. That is actually domestic violence and you can go to jail if you got some person that reacted wrong. there is only 1 valid reason to hit anyone, if your in physical danger. man or woman doesn't matter.
both of you should move on and grow up.0
Most Helpful Girl
... Looking clearly at the situation' here, dear, you are better off without this dude and can do better and... Deserve better than to continue always having to go through 'Crap together' and this three ring circus always ending up to be a... War of the Roses.
Good luck. xx0