I was with my ex 3 years, we had the most amazing relationship ever, he left me a few weeks ago and said it was due to me accusing him of cheating (which i did lightly as i am in a bad place) he also said it was stress of money and he wasn't eating. When he walked out he wouldn't have anything to do with me, he ignored me, he told my dad this was because i wouldn't of accepted it, how could he walk out so easily after 3 years? everything was fine even up to the day before he left. He won't talk to me at all and has removed everything of me off his facebook.. how can he walk away so quickly? will he miss me? or even give me a second thought? He says he 'dsnt wanna see me', why won't he have anything to do with me or see me? and why is he so nasty towards me?, he left me not the other way around..
Most Helpful Guy
People tend to walk away from horrible life experiences. This is what he did.
He felt the relationship was falling apart and consequently hung up his shoes.
You're a the point where you're over thinking, over analysing and deluding yourself. You think everything was just fine, but when you look back on it you'll be able to see the cracks and where they formed.
I'm going to assume you were acting needy, insecure and desperate when the relationship ended. You probably bombarded him with texts and calls. I might be wrong, but it seems that way.
You need to back away completely and give him space. You need to realise that the more you push him to rethink, the more you're pushing him away.
If you want any chance of rekindling this, you need to walk away and mean it.
Either he'll move on too, or he'll realise that the radio silence is permanent and that if he doesn't contact you you'll be gone.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
He is probably trying to push you away. It probably isn't easy for him at all, and that's why he is being nasty, because it is easier than being nice. If he is nice, and sees you, he might have a harder time moving on. So he is cutting all ties, because it isn't easy for him either. Even if he did break up with you, it isn't always easy for him. It still hurts, and it takes time to move on. So he might be hurting too, and just needs to be away from you, to heal.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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