can I do anything? did she make me believe that she has a new boyfriend just to make me hate her and stop all the contact? why did she do that and she was telling me that I'm the best she could find? any solutions from experienced people here would be appreciated, I need solutions to affect her or at least make her feel bad about what she did, and no I don't know her address at the moment. She used to hide everything from me and know everything about me, I know I've been naive, but I thought love was built on trust that never fades. any help dear friends
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One of the hardest things for a person to learn is that the "honeymoon" phase of a relationship ends eventually. She is thinking that this new guy is better than you or treats her better than you did because they are still in that first, initial phase. Unfortunately, she is going to have to learn that for herself.
I know it is hard, I am trying to get my ex back right now too! I tried really hard to "make" him see that we do have a great relationship, but in the end, they have to realize this by themselves.
Also, she is probably trying to fill the void of you with this other guy so she doesn't have to deal with the loneliness. I used to do this myself, but I finally saw that it is just a vicious cycle that only I had the power to stop.
She knows that you are still trying to get her back, so she still "has you." This is where I am in my relationship too... and I am desperately trying to get myself to just not contact him at all. Believe me, I know it is hard.. but like I said, she is the one who has to realize what she lost... and it is hard for her to do that when she technically hasn't "lost" you yet.
Good luck... I hope everything works out for you!2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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