My husband has ignored me and our kids for over a year now we finally moved out and are doing well. I have meet a great guy who spends time with us and adores my kids and the kids love him. Now all of a sudden my husband (we are filing for divorce) is coming around and asking how to fix our marriage. Why does he care now? Why is he doing this now instead of trying to fix things when I asked for a whole year?
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he was probably stuck in that "she'll never find better than me" or the "she's not ACTUALLY going to leave me or move on" and it made him complacent and indifferent.
now that he sees you have moved on and met a great guy who is the man and father figure he never was its shaken him.
i think you should definitely try things with this new guy who genuinely appreciates you but also have a civil and respectful relationship with your husband so that the kids aren't scarred for life0
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