Me and my ex was together 3 years, we lived together and 2 weeks before he left we had booked our wedding, I have a child from a previous relationship who he loved and has the best most amazing bond with ever. He left me he said due to stress of money and arguing and accusations from me of him cheating and text me saying 'it was easier to leave than talk about it', I know there was no one else before he left, he left and then I found out I was pregnant im now 11 weeks, he wasn't happy at he told me to get rid of the baby even though we had been trying for at least a year, he was adamant he didn't want a baby as it would me he would have to 'see me' and he didn't want to he said. He came to get his things and left me with things in the house that are his (washing machine, matress on bed) he even left my little boy his xbox even though I packed it for him he left it. He ignored me mainly for weeks telling me to begin with I was lying about being pregnant then when it was proove that he didn't want the baby at all. He text me after me 'apologising to him' even though I had no reason just told him life's to short saying it was easier for him to leave then to talk about it and he hasn't asked how my son is as it's hard not seeing him and easier to shut it all out, he said its no good me being sorry now as he's gone for good and him sewing other people is nothing to do with me, he then went on to say 'I dont even want to see you let alone have a baby with you'. I guess him seeing other people isn't anything to do with me but it kills, yesterday someone told me he has been spending time with a new girl and on facebook came a pic of him with his arm around another girl she has 'thanked him' for a good day so far:( and they went on a night out. I'm so hurt how he could of moved on so quickly from me it has only been 3 and a half weeks, how can anyone move on so quickly :-(
Most Helpful Guy
"He left me he said due to stress of money and arguing and accusations from me of him cheating"
Was he really cheating on you? If he was not then this is what drove him, away from you... you were a accusing him of cheating and that made him lose his love for you!
And constantly argument creates a big gap in any relationship..
Most Helpful Girl
People often jump into new "relationships" or friendships awfully quickly after break ups. It's often because the person wants to feel the excitement again and fill the void in their hearts. That is called a rebound relationship and most of them don't last. But that's not really the issue here. This guy sounds like a asshole to me. The way he talked to you and cut you off is extremely disrespectful so you need to remind yourself of how he treated you.. he's going to be treating other women the same so you should feel more sorry for new flings in his life because he'll cause sadness and pain for them too. I know it might not seem this way now but I think in the long run you'll be thankful it didn't work out because I can only predict a life of sadness with a guy like him. Do yourself a favor and delete him off social media (you are just causing your own pain by keeping him there) and ask friends to not talk about him when they're with you. If you want to move on it will take small sacrifices.
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