I didn't know this but me and my friends were all talking and the topic of cheating came up and I asked my girlfriend has she ever cheating before. She said "Define cheating" I said cheating is cheating if you can't tell your partner" She said "I didn't physically cheat, The guy bought me lunch, drove me to work, called me at night, bought me a somethings" I said when did this happen?" She looked and said "Dont hate me but 2 months in the beginning of our relationship, We were fighting a lot you were never around so he showed up, he knew about you but didn't care. He just wanted to be there for me" I said "In ways that I couldnt?" Im pissed.. I dont know what to say we been dating for 8 months and she kept that from me for this long. What the hell else has she been doing?
Most Helpful Guy
I would break up with her, she knew what his intentions were and still hung out with him/entertained him.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Break up with her clearly. No one deserves to be cheated on... except one specific scenario in my opinion.
She sounds like she used the guy. And just because you two were fighting doesn't mean that she can find comfort in someone else giving her what she wants. How would she feel if you did the same? Not good, I bet. And what would happen if you two fight again? She might sleep with someone this time.
Dump her. She's not trustworthy.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE