I didn't know this but me and my friends were all talking and the topic of cheating came up and I asked my girlfriend has she ever cheating before. She said "Define cheating" I said cheating is cheating if you can't tell your partner" She said "I didn't physically cheat, The guy bought me lunch, drove me to work, called me at night, bought me a somethings" I said when did this happen?" She looked and said "Dont hate me but 2 months in the beginning of our relationship, We were fighting a lot you were never around so he showed up, he knew about you but didn't care. He just wanted to be there for me" I said "In ways that I couldnt?" Im pissed.. I dont know what to say we been dating for 8 months and she kept that from me for this long. What the hell else has she been doing?
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Obviously this guy is trying to get into her pants. You need to find out if it went any further than what she says it did. Maybe not sex but there could've been a kiss or maybe an intimate hug. Once you find out if something more happened or nothing at all you need to figure out for yourself if you can be with her after she hid that from you. 6 months is a long time to keep something hidden from your partner. Also how long did this go on for before she stopped it? That's another thing you need to find out. If you can't trust her than you have no reason to be with her. You can't have a relationship without trust. That's not a relationship it's a prison. You'll feel like she's cheating on you all the time you guys will fight and that's no way to be with someone doing that makes you resent that person and makes you regret forgiving them if you come to find out that you can't let it go and can't trust her. You need
To talk to her and find out everything before you make your decision.1