Should I give up on him?
So I was dating my ex for about a month and I know it sounds crazy but things escalated extremely quickly. At first things were great but then he went missing on me for a few days, he said it was because he didn't know how to process the feelings he has for me and that I'm the closest thing he's come to feeling since coming back from deployment a few years ago. He's divorced for that very reason. He has attachment issues. We talked and everything seemed good but then he started to become distant again. And I will admit that I can be clingy if I'm ignored, and as much as he didn't like it, he accepted that that's how I am because I'm probably the only person who's ever fought for him. We got into a fight because he disappeared on me again and I ended up in the hospital during that time and he didn't even respond. To add more stress to the situation, my doctor informed me that I may be pregnant but it's still to early to tell. Well ever since I shared this information, he's treated me like crap. He hardly spoke to me. We've seen each other once and that was only to hook our friends up. He refuses to see me and would only talk to me if I yelled at him for the way he was acting even though he wouldn't change but also doesn't want me to leave (I've asked him many times.) So he was being extremely rude the other day for absolutely no reason as he has been for almost 2 weeks. Well he's told me many times that he hates the way he treats me so I finally had enough of the talk and wanted to see the effort. I decided to rip him a new one and break it off. My hopes were that since he only responds to me when I stand up for myself that he would realize that this is serious to me and that I'm done with his behavior. I told him that I would no longer speak to him unless he started trying. I miss him a lot and but he's too prideful to come back. It's only been 2 days but it's the longest I've gone without initiating contact. Should I wait for him to call or reach out or just let go?
Can a guys prioritization of sports ruin a relationship? Is this considered to be cheating? Do you think the saying once cheater always a cheater is true? Why should I try to get an ex girlfriend back when she has no respect for me, no ambitions or goals? Have you ever cut someone off because you felt like something bad was gonna happen to them?
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