OK I have been seeing this guy as a friend for the last month but he wants us to be more than friends, and I'm willing except he does not say a lot about himself he has a certain time he calls me,if I call him its either he does not pick up or he says let me call you back and I think he is hiding something. When I try to confront him he always changes the subject, what should I do, I mean I like him but I do not like the thought of being ignored, I invite him to parties for him to meet my friends, he does not show up always has an excuse and I have never met anyone from his side friends or family but my whole family knows him.
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This guy sounds shady to me. I feel like he is hiding something that you might not even want to know. If he's not taking things to the next level emotionally by letting you into that part of his life (family,friends,etc.), maybe you need to figure out why. Don't go further with him without figuring out what he's hiding. Tell him that you feel like he is hiding something and state your arguement (the way he never answers, doesn't show up when you invite him somewhere, etc.), and see what he has to say for himself.. If he can't even take you to his home, maybe you should drop this guy. Or maybe he still lives with his parents and it embarasses him, but to me, he sounds married.0