I need an explanation, please! So, in a nutshell.. I met this really nice funny guy at college. He approached at me and he started talking, instant click! it was late so gave me a ride home. Then, friend request and texts later, we were communicating on a daily basis. Had so much fun, felt great. Weeks passed and I got to know his whole family and friends. He asked me to be his girlfriend and even if it was a little fast, I said yes. He seemed so involved and always had little details to make me feel good at his place. He told everybody we were in a relationship, too.
He suggested plans for months to come (like celebrating months, birthdays..) and liked the idea of lasting long.
Fast forward: Few days ago, something felt uneasy in my gut. We went out and cuddled and stuff, but then he told me he didn't feel ok. We met next day and told me he'd been struggling with a feeling like "love slipped away" WHAT? that maybe needed to be alone and didn't feel the same for me or the relationship anymore.
please, somebody, answers?
But sadly, I haven't met him or talked at all, and it felt like he just dumped me.
Most Helpful Guy
That wasn't love that slipped away. It was initial attraction. He was initially attracted to you, and now you guys have reached the time when a relationship either floats or sinks. You should talk it through together, get things out in the open, figure out whether you can work on it, or should part ways.
Most Helpful Girl
Bottom line here, dear, is with being that things moved 'Fast Forward' with the both of you, especially on his half, he suddenly grew cold duck feet with everything he told you and realized... He didn't want to be in a Real relationship and that the Big "C" which is Commitment, was a big too much for him to take.
He probably, deep down in his Own 'Gut,' really cares about you. He is making lame duck excuses in other parts of his ponder pond, where he wants his space, but just isn't Ready nor Raring for a Relationship as two birds of a feather.
Give him some time but don't wait around. Many of today's toms are sporadic, unpredictable and Will... Grow cold duck feet, one time or another.
Good luck. xx0