My problem is that I can't break up. I tried to break up face to face but I always burst into tears and don't break up. I sent him text but he always knows how to make me change my mind. What shall I do. I need to close thus chapter if my life and start a new one
Most Helpful Guy
He dos not "make" you change your mind. It is always your decision. You should be asking yourself why will I not follow through on my decisions.
Your problem probably comes from the fact that you follow your heart instead of your head. That is okay. . . sometimes, but not now. You should adopt a simple strategy: follow your heart into a relationship into a relationship but follow your head out of a relationship.
If you can't break up ay other way, send him a letter telling him that you want to end the relationship and that, if he has my respect for you, he will not try to contact you again. If he still comes around and you allow him back in t your life, you need some counselling to deal with your lack of self-confidence and self-esteem.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Ah, I've been here. Eventually he was just like, I'm breaking up with you cause I know it's what you want, and I felt really relieved when it happened.
Anyway, if he's not going to do it and you can't do it in person, just do it via text and explain you can't do it in person, you're sorry it's a text but it's the best thing for you. Offer to met and discuss but be firm with yourself that you will not go back! Good luck0