Well I've been dumped 3 months ago from my first serious relationship, we were together 4 years. I see people are advising how after the breakup a person needs to be busy, hang out with friends, find a hobby, etc. But what if I already did those stuff while I was in a relationship? There is literally nothing I can find more to do to speed up the process of moving on. I had an amazing job and I still have, I had an amazing hobby and I still have, I often hanged out with my friends and I still do... There was nothing I didn't or couldn't do while I was in a relationship that I have time for it now. I don't want to do something that I don't like doing, so I'm basically just continuing my life, just without him. I just don't feel like if I did some drastic change with my life would help with anything. I like my life the way it is, I liked it with him as well. It's all the same just without him, and I feel empty. I still think about him every day and I still hope he changes his mind and comes back. So, will time heal it even without me doing anything?
Most Helpful Guy
Dear, the deeper it was, the longer it will take to heal and, yes, it will take sometime and will hurt. Can't be much helped, even doing and having all those activities and interests you mentioned.
A broken heart is a terrible pain. But it will pass and you will recover and move on. On the other hand, it is also knowledge. Really makes you stronger after the pain.
Eventually, time will heal you, but the real deal of medicine for this is finding another love - and this is tricky, because people tend to be wary after heartbroken.0
Most Helpful Girl
The simplest answer is
enroll in dance lessons that do not require a partner
matters not what type, so long as it's with partners... that rotate,
e. g. ballroom, C&W
It's distracting, physical sport that builds endorphins to overcome depression
builds confidence... in time
opens up a FRESH set of friends
and the resulting socials (dances/parties for practice) are the medicine the doctor ordered for being "dumped" ... another word for being saved from a life with someone that either knows not how to love or only loves self0