Most Helpful Girl
Would you give him another chance if he did this to you? When I was 15 I did this same thing to my first love. There was a rumor going around that he was cheating on me, so out of hurt and revenge, I started sleeping with someone else. It was wrong, on so many different levels and the entire time I was doing it I felt like a scum bag. However, I told him I cheated, and we worked past it. I found out about 2 months later that he had cheated again and instead of leaving him I went out and cheated again and again and it was routine until I finally felt so horribly about myself and him that I left him about a year and a half later. I still love him, as he was my first love. However, giving the cheating coming from both of us, I would never even consider giving the relationship another go. We were bad for each other, no doubt about it. We still talk often and have a good friendship, though we try to stay away from seeing each other where it takes a toll on both of us. I still think of him of him often and still wear the ring he gave me while we were both faithful to one another. And now, 4 years later, we both have families of our own. Both have kids and long term significant others whom we would never dream of cheating on. Sometimes you just have take a step back and realize that despite the love you have for someone, sometimes it just isn't meant to be. And sometimes, its better that you sit back and love them from a distance rather than being together and hurting that person because of your own selfish desires. I learned it the hard way, so did he, and eventually you will too. It really is true when I say that sometimes love is not enough.