Most Helpful Guy
Impossible to say why he's doing this, it's not exactly normal behavior... only thing I can say is you need to look out for YOU, and your baby. Don't let him drag you down, don't let him hurt you hoping that he will see how much hurt he's causing you and eventually go back to the way he was, I don't see how he could go back to the way he was after what he's done.
You need to find someone to help support you emotionally, friends, family, often you can get free counsellors that deal becoming a mother and just tough stuff in general. Sorry that your going through this and I hope you can find the strength to start building yourself up without him, not saying its going to be easy but I really think thats what you need to focus on.
Most Helpful Girl
first of all im sorry to hear you went through that its horrible! i truly believe that when a man doesn't fight for his family he isn't a man; but a coward. work on your self esteem and get stronger you seem kind hearted and dedicated, when a man leaves & its not interested in returning on his own than you shouldn't run after him, instead you should become more solid, independent and emotionally have your own back, find a man that will help provide, show that he loves you and ur child unconditionally and protect you and ur child. best of luck!