Broke up with me a month ago after 4 months together as he went back to his ex before me who he was with for 3 years. He tried to ask for "a break", but I wasn't prepared to wait around. He seemed genuinely distraught when we broke up, there was no need for him to act to spare my feelings as I acted very cool, calm and nice about it. he emailed the next night saying he was upset but I just replied that I was sorry to hear he was upset. He slept with her that w/end and suddenly are engaged. He has been trying to chat to me on msn and emailed me group jokes, as well as making comments to me on fb. Does a guy bother wanting to be 'just friends' with an ex as recent as me? Or do you think he's just trying to get a reaction out of me? I've pretended the whole time that I don't care.
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He's a confused, selfish, immature douchebag who wants what he can't have and tries to slither out of the accountability for his actions. You're doing right with the tough girl "so what" act. Stick with it and ignore him utterly. It'll only draw him closer at first, but in the end he'll see that his actions come with consequences.
Just don't let that emotional shut down become part of your routine with men.0