- Yes, message him!
- Wait until he messages you.
- Give it a while, and then message him!
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Don't message him when he told you straight up not to. It sounds like he's pretty angry/fed up and needs space. Respect his desire for distance, if he wants to talk to you he will.
Besides, why do you want to keep talking to someone who ends a year long relationship by telling you to eff off?