Me and my boyfriend just broke up last night, and I am not sad about it I'm just pretty calm lol I mean he broke up with me. And told me not to talk to him. But we've been dating for a year and a half. Do I message him? (Usually when it's over it's not really over) i don't want to be the one to message him if he told me not to and then for him not to reply. And he told me to basically f*ck off.
- Yes, message him!Vote A
- Wait until he messages you.Vote B
- Give it a while, and then message him!Vote C
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Don't message him when he told you straight up not to. It sounds like he's pretty angry/fed up and needs space. Respect his desire for distance, if he wants to talk to you he will.
Besides, why do you want to keep talking to someone who ends a year long relationship by telling you to eff off?4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE