Last year A girl I was friend with came on to anyways we flirted but, nothing really serious. I didn't fully believe her. We never really did anything together. Another girl came around and I had to choose. I made a wrong choice. It was a dumb crush. Ever since I was trying to get her back. She actually hates me. She ignores me. I apologized thousand of times. There were even times were I thought she would let me back. I truly miss everything about her. She was way shorter than me, so she would rest her head on my chest. I even miss the sound of her voice. Its been a year. She means the world to me. Now I've asked almost everyone for advice. I must have sent a thousand texts. nothing I'm trying to get my life back together, so we can. I wish she would just tell me. She can't be mad forever. I truly hate myself. I think I might start drinking. I always loved her, I just gave up cause she never returned interest. Then when she finally stated to show intrest , didn't believe her. I made a mistake. i'm such an idiot. In her mind I left her, then tried to come back. I know if the roles were reversed i would have taken her back in one or two months. I'm at a community college and i going to a college in the same city as her she is at another college. I just hope time does heal old wounds.
- She will come back... with time.Vote A
- She won't...Vote B
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Well, I have read and understood your situation, to tell you honestly, yes she may come back to you, but the chances are say only 20%, but 80% she probably won't. I don't know how much you guys spent with each other, say months or days, how was her behaviour towards you other than flirting? I mean did she treat with you respect, did she make you feel special or something like that? . I meant to ask you how do you take your decision, I mean do you take it based on logic/reasoning or on emotions/feelings? . Anyways , what you can do now is to wait for her and nothing more, give her some time, be sincere in your efforts, may be she'll understand and forgive you but don't keep you expectations high, just keep trying. It's going to be difficult for her to take you back, no doubt.
Time does heal wounds but the scars never goes away, the scars may fade but won't completely disappear.0