My dad died 6 weeks ago and my husband has decided that he has never loved me.
He said that he has never had butterfly feelings for me or anything. This doesn't surprise me since we have only had sex twice in 8 years!
He also said he only stayed until the kids were old enough. Could all this actually be true, or is he saying it to hurt me?
also why has he picked now to do it?
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Why now? There could be other reasons, but based solely on what you have told us if your marriage was already falling apart and you are now needing more support from him because of what happened to your father, he may just not be willing to give the effort of supporting you in your time of need. So instead he is just calling it quits.
I am sorry to hear about your dad, but I think you will be happier with someone else. Your marriage didn't sound like a happy one if he wasn't even trying to have sex with you for the last 8 years. He probably loved you at one point, but I think it is very likely he has been with you because of the kids for a while now.0