So I have know this guy for 3 years and I have liked him ever since I knew him but we were never close until we stated dating a coupe months ago. We were in our senior year of high shool and I was his first girfriend. He was amazing to be honest and we had this connction that words simply can not explain. During the relationship I felt like I wasn't good enough for him, I've never told him this but I was always trying to be the perfect girlfriend for him because I was his first actual realtionship. Anways things tured for the worst after two months of dating, I found protection in his bag and it kinda of freaked me out because I knew that meant he wanted xxxx and I began to think that if I did anything with him he might disappear on me. I knew he wasn't that type of person but I had to confront him about it just to make sure, He got really offened when I told him and I made it worst by saying I didn't know what type of person he was. Then I told him I didn't like the way the realtionship was going and he end up breaking up with me with a complimant sandwich and asking if we could still be friends.
Anyways fast forwarding, After we broke up I did everything your not suppose to after a break up. I had to delet his number to resist the urge to call him, basicly I had to push him away to give myself time to get over him. Not even a month later I found out that he was starting to talk to another girl. When I found out I immediately told him I could not be his friend and explained that I needed time. This was the hardenst thing to do because I saw them together everywhere, he didn't even try to hide it. Mainly it was his friends shoving it in my face, by the way I found out from them. THIS HURT LIKE HELL GUYS but eveutually I sucked it up and accepted it.
It still hard for me to think that he has lost all emotions for me and this chick isn't just a distracction to him. It's like deep down I still feel him there and I ignore it. I really want him back as my friend cause I care for him and I have never connected with somone like how I connected with him. I feel like I hurt him really badly but he's hurt me even worse. I wish we cold just forgive each other and move on with life but I think he as something aginst me and things will neverbe the same. I just miss having him around what do I do?
- let goVote A
- contact himVote B
- show him thisVote C
- you deserve betterVote D
Most Helpful Guy
I think you can find better, but you really need to let it go. At that age, I could be into one girl one day and then another the next week- it has nothing to do with emotions, it is pure lust. Who ever is showing him more attention and, given what he keeps on him, more willing to put out is who he will go for. DO NOT feel like you have to do anything to get a guy though. There are plenty of nice guys willing to wait, just not this one.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Let him go here, dear, he has Obviously moved on with another. As much as it 'Hurts like Hell,' what did you expect him to do? You had your chance with romance but it ended badly Because... I told him I didn't like the way the relationship was going...
He may have picked up and picked on a Rebound Rebecca, but it doesn't matter. Let it go, at least for now, and if it ends up you both can be these 'Friends,' then it would have been in Mother's Nature plan to get the... man. It may end up to be another full circle with him because it seems you have not got past the way you were Fret Feeling then and need to do First some soul searching to.. Overcome this.
As wise as I am, I am not only giving you my own 'Compliment sandwich,' but I am hoping I am your... Hero today.
Good luck. xx1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE