I don't think it'll matter either way. The relationship will end, you will move, and you probably won't see much more of one another. Those are set in stone regardless of if you gush your feelings or not. I wouldn't bother.
I wouldn't he seems to not care either way so why bother now if its something YOU need to get off your chest make sure you word it to where you were glad you met and dont want to make it more than it is blah blah blah lol
Tell him if it's something that will make you feel better.
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You described this 47 year old I know to the tee. He's been hurt many times and don't trust anyone. From personal experience with a man like this, don't do it.
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He's way younger than 47. Yes he has been hurt which has turned him against relationships.
Because your about to leave. No need to express your feelings to a man you can't be in a relationship with. Especially one who's been hurt, this could hurt him also. He's already fragile.
Yes you should tell him because if you don't then you'll regret it and it'll mess with your mind
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Honestly, tell him how you feel. The right man for you would lay anything and everything down for the one he cares about. If he is the right one he will go to the moon and back for you. I wish you luck!
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you won't "find happiness" or "live your life" in the big city. ohh the vanity. oh the immaturity... .
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You don't know that, or anything about my life and what I want. You are immature, and making ridiculous assumptions.
Exactly, because it's not the truth. Your answer is completely useless. You can't make assumptions about people you don't knows lives. I will go to the city and have a life. You can feel free to roll in cowshit for the rest of your life if it is so great.
vanity of vanities all is vanity. no parties, and no shopping will make you happier. in fact living in a rural area has many advantages. but my idea is... go. go, get dissapointed, get your fair amount of slapping from life, and in 15-20 years you'll see things in a more mature way... .
I am not into the country outdoors life. I do not like living in a town that has no privacy and everyone knows you and is in your business. People have their own preferences. I have been to the city multiple times and I love it. There are people dozens of years older than me that prefer the city over the country.
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I don't think it'll matter either way. The relationship will end, you will move, and you probably won't see much more of one another. Those are set in stone regardless of if you gush your feelings or not. I wouldn't bother.
I wouldn't he seems to not care either way so why bother now if its something YOU need to get off your chest make sure you word it to where you were glad you met and dont want to make it more than it is blah blah blah lol
Well, tell him how you feel. If he rejects you, you'll never see him again. If he accepts you, you can get in touch.
I think it would give YOU some closure. Yeah... why not
Tell him if it's something that will make you feel better.
You described this 47 year old I know to the tee. He's been hurt many times and don't trust anyone. From personal experience with a man like this, don't do it.
He's way younger than 47. Yes he has been hurt which has turned him against relationships.
why not though? what do you think might happen?
Because your about to leave. No need to express your feelings to a man you can't be in a relationship with. Especially one who's been hurt, this could hurt him also. He's already fragile.
No. He's damaged goods. Leave him be!. he is not your boyfriend.
She's straight not bi. Most girls are straight. So Don't tell her to get a girlfriend.
@floyd790 shut up and stop leaving bizarre comments in my thread. You are a control freak.
Tell him. If he doesn't want anything else then move on.
If I was in his situation, I'd probably only want a friends with benefit thing only and nothing more.
Yes you should tell him because if you don't then you'll regret it and it'll mess with your mind
Honestly, tell him how you feel. The right man for you would lay anything and everything down for the one he cares about. If he is the right one he will go to the moon and back for you. I wish you luck!
you won't "find happiness" or "live your life" in the big city. ohh the vanity. oh the immaturity... .
You don't know that, or anything about my life and what I want. You are immature, and making ridiculous assumptions.
truth hurts. oh wait.. you are too blinded to see any truth... .
Exactly, because it's not the truth. Your answer is completely useless. You can't make assumptions about people you don't knows lives. I will go to the city and have a life. You can feel free to roll in cowshit for the rest of your life if it is so great.
vanity of vanities all is vanity. no parties, and no shopping will make you happier. in fact living in a rural area has many advantages. but my idea is... go. go, get dissapointed, get your fair amount of slapping from life, and in 15-20 years you'll see things in a more mature way... .
I am not into the country outdoors life. I do not like living in a town that has no privacy and everyone knows you and is in your business. People have their own preferences. I have been to the city multiple times and I love it. There are people dozens of years older than me that prefer the city over the country.
yes if you cared about him he deserves an explanation and the truth.
Yes. Wouldn't that only be right?
Smell my stinky cheer shoes
Yes you should big time
Yes he has a right to know
You're moving and will be meeting new people.
yes. nothing can happen if he doesn't know
Yes! You should.
Yea, sure.