Most Helpful Girl
Sounds messy. Look, I know you're still in love with this chick, but you have to fall back a bit and let her miss you. Yeah, maybe you had your flaws, but it sounds like she did too. So don't beat yourself too much. Regardless of what she says, she is exploring her options right now. Give her space enough to miss you, which means no sex, kisses, nothing. It'll be hard, but when she has her cake an eats it too, then there's really no rush to get off the fence and make up her mind.
Most Helpful Guy
Oh, Christ on a stick... How in the sweet name of fuck are you people allowed to breed?