My ex broke up with me 10 months ago. She was the love of my life. The break up wasn't messy or anything. She just didn't "feel it" right now, even though that deep down she knew that her and I were meant to be.
So now, after almost 8 months of No Contact she has reached out. She congratulated me on my new job, and we texted back and fourth a bit. She even said "let me know if you want to come over and say hi"... I tried to skip over that part of her text and we texted a bit more about random stuff.
I haven´t heard from her in 2 weeks, so now I texted her. We just talked a bit last night. Nothing major. Just chit chat. It went very well I think, but I was kinda hopeing that she would be the one to make the first contact again.
Then today I was in her neighborhood so I asked if I should drop by for coffee. She said she was at school so she couldnt. Something tells me that this isn't entirely true... I dont know why I feel that... Lets just call it a hunch..
Now I kinda feel that she wasn´t really that interrested after all.
Am I reading to much into this?
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they don't and can't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in her own softie spot here, dear, there comes a time when they also may change their mind With... Something tells me that this isn't entirely true.
In the beginning of her beguine, with her sweet talk and actions that almost were louder than her own words, it seems she grew cold duck feet and got scared when she saw that things were getting a bit too close for comfort. With thinking it over more carefully, it seems with perhaps a lame duck excuse, she has had a change of heart.
Contact her and make it light and semi sweet. Tell her it would be nice if you both could just hang out sometime and tell her to give you a call when she is free, it doesn't have to be anything fancy, coffee is fine.
I believe she was 'Interested,' but just got feeling she was taking the plunge again too fast.
Good luck. xx0
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