I was seeing a guy for about three months. From the very begginning he said that he wanted to play the field for the last year and a Half of college. I didn't want a relationship either so we talked on the phone every night for a month and a half before we started seeing each other in person when I came back for school. I've met his family, his friends, he takes me on dates, he's always there for me, there is no sex involved, he's consistent, and he seemed like he was genuinely interested in me. When I asked him where this was going he said that he could see himself marrying me and having kids with me in the future but as for now he still really didn't want a relationship even though we pretty much are in one. I thanked him for his honesty and cut him off since now I want a relationship and he didn't. Whenever guys tell me they don't want a relationship I assume they just don't want one with me but he seemed genuinely interested in me. Was this him just not wanting a relationship or was he just not that into me?
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It's a definition thing. He sees "relationship" differently than you. He doesn't see you two going out and playing as one, he just sees it more as friends (not friend zone) but more. When he says he doesn't want a relationship it means he isn't ready to get tied down yet. Give him time.0