when I was away at college I met this guy who was a total sweetheart. He treated me like no other guy has ever treated me in my life. he would do just about anything to be with me but he was a little too clingy and needy that's what kind of turned me off about him. I kinda didn't mind because I knew he ment well. but I never felt the same way he did. I feel bad because I know he really likes me but I don't feel the same way. and now he is trying to be with me so bad and I'm not even in college anymore. so I guess my question is how can I tell him without hurting him that I don't want to be with him? I know it sounds horrible because I did lead him on but it was only because I liked the idea of someone liking and/or loving me so much. but now I don't know what to do and I don't want to hurt him, he deserves better than that. and now I just feel so guilty somebody please help me.
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What I would have appreciated if I were him is that the person I liked talked to me. So what I think you should do is ask if you could meet him and then talk about it. Just sit and talk for a while and explain the situation and let him express his own feelings. Talk about why it wouldn't work out and why he shouldn't feel bad about it, if he is a good guy he will surely find someone as well.1
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