okay so she message me asking for her stuff back, and those money i owe her when we were tgt. So i say Ok since i am trying to get over it as well, den i told her i will put her stuff on her table, (i'll ask her sis to open the door for me) at the same time i would take my stuff back as well.
but she told me vehemently no. ask me to leave her stuff outside the door is fine. and she refused to let me go take my stuff back. -___- so i couldnt make head or tails out of it. why can't i take my stuff back? And since she's the one who wanted the break up, why is she posting on fb. letting go is hard, but i would survive.
(okay if u needed more information, i caught her out with a guy when she told me she's at work. so decided to confront her about it, but she refuses to tell me anything, atm i was so pissed i asked for time out. so after a long period of hiatus (about a month) i decided to storm to her house and ask for verification. Whether she wanted break or patch. after an hour of like, chasing me away and telling me she has no answer for me, she finally told me we are over. )
so can anyone tell me is she like over over, or she is hoping that i chase her back?
by the way if i am not wrong she's seeing another guy during our time-out. (and her parents totally loathe that guy). so, anyone can explain?
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... Letting go is hard, but I would survive...
It's Quite obvious, with the Writing on the wall and even 'Posting on fb,' that she doesn't want to let you go and isn't raring or ready. She wants her sweet cake and eat it Two and also, by Not letting you 'Take my stuff back,' she is putting This, along withYou... In her back pocket as a n ace in the hole when the others dump her or she dumps them.
She can no longer be trusted and even if she and you were to get back together, I see nothing but a full circle problem pattern here, dear.
You need to be your own Strong straw boss and go to her house, get in her face and demand your things back or tell her you will have an escort come to her home and help her with this.
How would she like this all over Newsfeed, you Ask her?
Good luck. xx1