We broke up 2 months ago bc I couldn't accept his difference of faith. We had dated four months. The last time we spoke, He told me he adores me and never cared for a woman as much as he does for me and he's even mentioned marriage scenarios to me prior to breakup. We even cried about it and hugged. When we figured to break up, he kept saying he doesn't believe it's over, that it doesn't feel like we're done. I'm in my late twenties, he's only a few years older and an amazing guy to me. He's never contacted me again and neither have I since then. It's been 100% no contact for 2 months... Thing is... even though the reason we broke up was about me not accepting his faith... I've since changed my mind about what faiths I can accept and I feel like we can get back together and figure out what to do about my family later if we decided to get married one day... But it's been 2 full months of no contact. I know he was crushed about breaking up at the time bc I could tell that he was falling in love with me, and possibly was in love. I think maybe he's really respecting the breakup decision about faith, and thinking "she said goodbye, she couldn't accept me as I am, it's over, I have no chance with her." I'm guessing, I don't know, I'm not sure what it is, but i don't know how to go about getting back together with him. Should I wait for him to contact me while I see other people (which I already am, and even another ex boyfriend who I haven't talked to for 3 months is reconnecting with me after I blocked him! bc he was the one that wronged me.) But this new ex I'm asking about did nothing wrong to cause the breakup. Should I give this wonderful ex another month (making it 3 months of no contact).. Or should I be the one to reach out to him ASAP?--- if so, what should I say? How should I do it?
I really feel like I didn't give him and what we had a good chance and that i gave up too soon.
I Would appreciate help from guys and girls with this! Please help! Thank you.
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As wise as I am, and know plenty about Break ups And Make Ups as well here, dear, ASAP as soon as you can with this man.
Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye forever, my love. It's Obvious you still have Marked an X in your own softie spot for your "EX" so the sooner you get back into touch with him, the sooner you can be.. Touching again.
No, it;s Never too late. I am quite sure he is Missing the Kissing and that you are Very much on his mind. And with your change of heart about 'Faith,' this will be Now the Seal of Approval to Seal it with a kiss.
I married a man out in Egypt and being a Christian I had no problem with marrying a Muslim at the Ministry of Justice. I believe we all, no matter what, should accept everyone's faith and they, in turn... Should accept yours.
Explain to him, face to face, that you want a second chance at this romance because you realize how silly and wrong you were about Faith.. Instead of Forever.
Good luck, you have my full blessings. xx1
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