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The newbie at first here, dear, was just your Rebound Robert To... Forget about my ex.
However, your plan worked, backfired in a way, where Now that you have the "EX" back in your life, the newbie ended Up... Marking his own X in your softie spot.
Yes, you are in a bit of a pickle where I would say and are a bit fickled, to say the least.
As wise as I am, the Other soul mate, who at First was this challenge to you, a chase, was the apple up at the top of the tree hardest to grab and now that you have him back in your hand basket, safe and secure... You are Not sure.
Thinking about the newbie wll not go away Johnny Appleseed on the spot, I can tell you. The more you are with the so-called 'Soul mate,' the more that you will want to be with the Other, who really could have Been... A true love.
Give your mate at hand now a chance and see if you both can work things out to at least get things back to the "Way we were." If you see it is not working on your own end, then tell him you feel it might be best to just start off as friends and with the Other hand, who could have been the ideal card... Tell him too you would like to start off as friends as well.
In other words, don't Commit yourself to Anyone. It's going to only go down a badly beaten path, end up a War of the Roses and you will just end up in the end With... No one.
Good luck. xx
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