Is he scared as to what my reaction will be?
Is he not bothered about me?
It'd be helpful to know what the situation was because a relationship doesn't mean he has to agree with you on everything but if it was a situation where you were being made fun of or picked on then both of you should be telling the "bully" off and getting out of there.
It does not mean that he does not like you or want you back. Because honestly there is no reason to fight for someone who will that easily walk out of your life.
You ended when you should not have. It was your mistake and now its up to you to fix it. Talk to him and let him know you are sorry.
Mmbecause... Chivalry is dead. Children are being raised by a society that is sans moral compass and a set of moral values. The majority of people no longer hold faith in anything greater than sex, money, or self. Therefore, they seek only to serve sex, money, or themselves and nothing else. To defend someone else requires one to desire selflessness...
Because when we do you tell us we are pushy and possessive and that you want your space. You gals don't get to have it both ways. Whatever we do, you get mad at us. If you want him to fight for you then that means you left him, and yet you want him to stay. That's ridiculous. Usually, girls like you want your guy to give up everything for you, but where would that leave your guy? I think you just need some time for yourself to figure out what you want out of life. Good luck.
Why would he need to fight for you? Are you that self-centered that you want the person you supposedly loved to do that because you couldn't handle a situation like an adult?
OK no man wanta to grovel for anyone. Unless they truly love you. So he might like you but not love you. then he might not know how to express him self you know. Like he might be giving the situation some space that his way of dealing. Witb the situation. Or he might not wanna be in a relationship with you.
Guys don't want to fight to get girls back because they ended it. Why would we try if we knew you didn't want us? If you ended it it's over, and he knows you probably won't take him back. Guys don't fight for their ex's because it comes off as controlling, creepy, and is usually not needed or wanted. How do you expect a guy to know you want him back and that he should try to get back with you? By the sounds of it you don't even want him back so why do you want him fighting to get you? Why are you so hung up over it if you don't want him back in the first place?
Probably because whatever you were arguing over actually made him want to break up with you.
Stop playing games, you are the one that ended it, if you still want him, then you should take the initiative after ending it.
Is this a fight with someone else? If so I wouldn't help her unless she aske dme too. she's a big girl, she can handle herself but obviously im there if she NEEDS me
Because he was already half way out the door. Guys often emotionally check out of relationships before the actual break up. He left you a long time ago.
You broke it off. Never going back is a good policy for a guy as you will break it off again. Done is done.
because it's not always best decision, I remember that as much as I wanted to fight for my last one it simply was the best thing at the time.
Why? Why do women need to pull these stunts? If you're over me you shouldn't care.
Probably because he didn't want to get the relationship back.
I won't if she wants to be with another guy or just loses interest in general we just go our separate ways
My guess is, he lacked conviction, though some extra details would be nice
because he isn't a puzz.
Props to him!!
a man who doesn't figh for his girl is not a man
Maybe the pain is too difficult to deal with. So he cut you loose rather than be hurt further
Not saying you cheated, but something has pained him. Its quite possible, he was in love far deeper with you, than you are with him
Why fight for someone who doesn't want to fight for you? You ended the relationship. He saw that as you telling him that you don't want to fight for him or work things out. Why should he have to come crawling on his knees to you and beg you to take him back, when you clearly wouldn't do the same for him? That's really pitiful, and nobody should do something like that. Even if it's for a person they love. They deserve more respect than that. If you still want to have a relationship with this guy, you shouldn't have broken up with him. Breaking up "in the heat of the moment" is really immature, you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place if you can't handle arguing without threatening to break up or actually breaking up.
He respects your decision to break up and doesn't feel bothered to beg you to take him back, since he just assumes that you don't want him back. He's being logical. You are not.
not bothered mostly, but if u think about it, it's also a safety mechanism. i mean, why would u fight for someone who clearly doesn't want u?
do u really think he's gonna sit there, think like a woman and actually assume u WANT him to fight? course not. that's why theyre men. dont expect them to think like u. this is why, when u break up with one, consider their feelings.
You're upset you called it off and he was fine with it? Girl I'm totally jelly :P
Lol so honestly what it means is that he was done with you, he obviously for whatever reason was no longer romantically attracted to you. If a guy likes you he's not gonna give up easily, for him to put no effort means that he's relieved it's done.
Also you probably hurt his pride a bit.
And this is why games are crap.
He might be on to you, he might respect your decision.
Not everyone will "fight" for it (ergo beg)
I know I wouldn't, if he is done thats it. Moving on.
I think men do fight for their girls when they want too. Having said that its very difficult to gauge your situation without finer details. Maybe he is moving on thinking that he has no chance with you or that he doesn't have feelings for you anymore sparked by something in the relationship.
Because you broke it off
Not every man is going to fight
He doesn't give a single f.
You've to give more detail , It seems that you're leaving a lot out. But by reading the other comments , People are saying you broke up with him. You probably did that , Because of how he treats you. Seems to me he was cheating and doing other things so you wanted to end it , Then since he didn't fight for you. You realized you made a mistake , Now you want him back. You have to know , You can't make a person love and feel the way you do. It has to come deep within him , He's showing you by his actions he doesn't feel the way you feel about him. And kids want make a man love a woman more , If he loves you nothing will stop him from being with you. So either you will put up with the way he treats you or move on.
He's relieved you ended it and now doesn't have to bother with the drama anymore.
People fight for what they really want. I guess it's over.
Because he never really loved her
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