and also what guys like about women for when im ready :-)
Most Helpful Guy
i was also little bit depressed when i was divorced... i stayed away from alcohol because it realy influnces the feelings... just give sometime to yourself and keep your self confidence...
and when you are ready, noone can say no to a feminen 30 years old hot woman :)... so enjoy the party :D...
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Most Helpful Girl
What worked best for me was to consciously set a "me" time:
do what you want to do. Stay in or go out, start that hobby you've wanted to, date casually, listen to loud music and dance alone at home. Remember how you were back in the days and start over. Listen to your gut. Get out of your confort zone.
Don't be a certain way either to attract men. Be yourself, be secure, demand and give respect and most importantly have fun and enjoy life.