My 14 year relationship has failed. I gave everything to my relationship and becoming a mum I lost a lot of my friends I was with a self centred person how mentally wore me down to the point of suffering from depression and anxiety. The only friends i have are my sister's and two other people. I would like to know the best things to do to build my confidence and find the person I was 14 years ago :-)
and also what guys like about women for when im ready :-)
Most Helpful Guy
i was also little bit depressed when i was divorced... i stayed away from alcohol because it realy influnces the feelings... just give sometime to yourself and keep your self confidence...
and when you are ready, noone can say no to a feminen 30 years old hot woman :)... so enjoy the party :D...0
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Most Helpful Girl
What worked best for me was to consciously set a "me" time:
do what you want to do. Stay in or go out, start that hobby you've wanted to, date casually, listen to loud music and dance alone at home. Remember how you were back in the days and start over. Listen to your gut. Get out of your confort zone.
Don't be a certain way either to attract men. Be yourself, be secure, demand and give respect and most importantly have fun and enjoy life.0