Myself and my ex have been apart for about a year and half now, I ended it. I was still in school studying had my final exams coming up and a relationship was the last thing I needed. He meant a lot to me and it was incredibly hard breaking up with him but I had too much going on. He naturally was upset but accepted it. Less than a month after us breaking up he had gotten himself a new girlfriend which I found out through Facebook. It was a bit of a shock, I mean less than a month? But whatever we had cut ties and all contact. I had also unfriended him on Facebook, it was easier for me to do so. This way I could get over him and I didn't have to know what he was doing. So I had went on Facebook about an hour ago and my friend had messaged me telling me he was now a dad to that same girl he got together with in less than a month after we ended.
Now I am over him completely, I don't love him or miss him and I don't know if I'm being stupid but is it wrong for me to feel "upset", I don't even know if that is the right word to describe it. I just, I really didn't think they would last that long. I thought she was his rebound I mean we were together for almost a year, it's not incredibly long but it felt like it. I was expecting they wouldn't last and seeing this makes me think him and her are more serious than I had thought and well more than we ever would have been.
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I don't think it's that wrong. I would be devastated if my last ex had a baby now because I guess it means there's no chance and there'll always be a baby in the way. I'd be confused too because he left me because he wasn't ready for commitment and always said he didn't want children.
I don't think you're fully over him like you thought. You got yourself comfortable with the idea it was a rebound and now this has come as a huge shock that it was not a rebound (though it could be an accident that he didn't want). You will get over this eventually.2