Most Helpful Guy
Time is the only cure. Time will give you perspective and heal your wounds. I would not recommend talking with him anymore... best to make a clean break.
Most Helpful Girl
Mine just broke up with me too, and surprisingly I had no big reaction to it tho it hurts real bad inside. All you can do is accept that you guys have broken up. If you think you want a future with him, and if the mistake made is not related to cheating, then take some time apart and consider getting back together afterwards. Don't rush it.
And you're not a loser. It's not wrong to love someone a lot. If in any case you decided to give him up, I'll suggest that you guys not stay friends, that's what I'm doing right now too. It's real hard, forgetting someone who once and still matters so much to you. Even when I see him now, I chose to not acknowledge him, because I convinced myself that he'll be better off without me in his life. And well, bc I love him, I'll let him go and find someone better.