I don't want an answer that has anything to do with "because I deserved something better or because I was drunk" I want a legitimately thought-through answer that takes control beyond the idealistic human awareness. I'm tired of excuses. Cheating is an excuse... So tell me. Why do we cheat?
Why Do We Cheat?
What Girls Said 3
Cheating is just a big ass hole in people's morality. It's based on deceit and selfishness. In reality you never deserved anything better and you were drunk SO you could cheat. It doesn't make you better morally. Excuses are just that, excuses for having p*ss poor morals.
If you aren't getting some things you need from your partner, talk to him/her. Leave him/her if things get amazingly hopeless, but all cheating does is shows that you don't care and the relationship didn't mean much. People are weak, but people who love each other truly can curb those weaknesses to be better for their partners, but those people today might be few and far between...
When my ex cheated on me , he told me it was because he was insecure about his looks...but that makes no sense surely he would feel confdient about his apperance if he was going out picking up all these girls.
Anyway I told him that was the worst excuse I've heard, there are days when I wake up and think I look awful , does not mean I go out and find a man to sleep with :/
we cheat because they cheat first.
we cheat because we are born animals that no not follow what is written in the book about morals and values.."who write the book? human" we don't like believing other humans..
we cheat because "his d*** is better/her p**** is better" but I don't want to be with him or her..
we cheat because we can't help to "not"
lastly we cheat because lets just face it..no one is perfect,we see oher stuff from others that our partners dont..
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What Guys Said 1
To get our needs filled, if we don't get them from our partner. I really can't see another reason.
Still a sh*tty thing to do, but I think its like that-
You have a girl/boy and don't get enough attention, sex or we have problems and are sad all the time. Could be anything.
Then we either search or get found by a person who delivers that. And we fail to control our self and do what's right. I mean its that or you just don't care about your *partner enough to care about it.0
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