We were best friends for around 10 years. He liked me, I liked him. All the timing was just completely off. I broke his heart in high school, he broke mine in college. We never actually dated. We were always back and forth for years. In college he finally came out to me one day and said that he had been using me emotionally b/c he wanted a girlfriend, but that he didn't have romantic feelings for me. We stopped being friends for a while partially because I couldn't stand him and what he did. He begged and begged for us to be friends again. I stopped ignoring him and what do you know... reverse psychology he stopped talking to me. In a way I got what I wanted, but I knew our friendship was forever changed.
Now he just calls and shows up when he feels like it. He doesn't live in the same city anymore, he doesn't keep in touch. He'll randomly text me every couple months to make sure I know he's still around.
How do I get out of hanging out with him? He'll totally know if I am lying to get out of seeing him. I REALLY don't want to see him though. Esp when he's bringing her!! his first ever gf!!! yes, his first ever girlfriend. We're 25, nothing wrong with that, but is there something so wrong that I don't want to meet this chic? Why is it so important for me to meet her anyway?
- Yes suck it up and go
- No, skip out, this guy sucks
Most Helpful Guy
Does he need your blessing or something? Don't go if you don't want to go simple as that0
Most Helpful Girl
... But I knew our friendship was forever changed...
He may just want to show her off to get you mad and sad and also may want your approval.
Let sleeping dogs lie, don't go barking up the wrong tree here, dear. You really don't want to go so don't.
Tell him you think it best to just let This rest and thank you but no thanks... I am busy.
Good luck. xx0
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