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My Story: My ex and I broke up one month and a week ago. We dated for 2 years. He said he lost feelings for me. I called him once, he didn't answer two days after the break up. I wrote him a letter (Saying how great he was three days after the break up, and mailed it to him (yes, I know stupid, but it was my first horrible break up (meaning my first love, my first real break up) and then one month later - I texted him saying this "I miss talking" would it be ok if I called you tonight. He responded "tonight is really not a good night. "my great grandpa passed away and we are trying to plan the funeral maybe later in the week" --- That was Tuesday. People are telling me I should wait to call him, and if he doesn't I shouldn't try contacting him, ever again. It's Friday now, and I haven't heard from him.
I feel pretty much doomed in my current situation.
I've heard of people getting back together after 5 months. Does this happen? If so can you talk about it?
I'd really love it if, someone perhaps a guy could relate to my story. I mean you break up with someone and then you want them back? Does this normally happen?
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My ex dumped me after 4 1/2 years, 5 months ago. She also said she lost feelings for me and the "spark" was gone.. She asked to be friends, yet she wanted to "see what else is out there".. so I was totally blindsided by all of this, then on top of it all she wanted to be friends while she tried to date other guys? Way too painful.. I was her first bf, first love, took her virginity.. etc.. She was the absolute most intense love I've ever felt for anyone.. I completely resent her for what she's done to me.. Actually if she called me right now, I'd probably tell her to f*** off. I can barely get out of bed somedays and she's always out partying and being an attention whore. I feel very used..1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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