Please help me out, especially if you've been in this position before!
Ex and I have been more or less in contact for a month after a month of no contact. When we're together or talking she seems interested but difficult to commit to a meeting. She was hanging out with this guy, but she said she just wants friendship from him. I'm moving on, have a party coming up and a few dating prospects, but I miss my girl and all the fun we had.
Lately we've been ignoring each other but she posts happy birthday and things on my friends MySpace. These people were never "our" friends, and they mostly hate her for how she treated me with the breakup. What is she trying to do here? I've heard women like to be chased but they also want a man who can get along fine and have fun without them. What should I do if I want us to try and work things out?
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Listen bro, this is simple... DATE MORE GIRLZ. I hate to say it but you may be attatched to what WAS and that's cool but it ain't neva gonna be like that again homie. She's playin these little mind games because you're available all the time. She knows you'll be there. If you ain't always there...she will begin to notice and then don't be surprised if all of a sudden she has madd interest in you again.
Yeah, you right...girls love the chase. But you need not chase. The best remedy for a newly single guy is a nice starting line-up (hott chics----many of them). When I was single, I would make sure I had at least 20 girls numbers::: because 10 of them weren't gonna call or were always busy, 5 of them were good party girls and the remaining 5 were girlfriend potential.
Use this method...You shall be over her in no time.0